@twa: I don't have problem with a game taking 2-3-4 hours, my problem is, when somebody has no choice but to disband his unit, or to retreat to 1-2 available places, or to build/disban 1-2 units only and he presses 'save' and forces 6 other people to wait.
I don't think the 'net plaing time' of the game is a waste at all, of course I don't otherwise I wouldn't play. But when I sit in front of my computer and all I'm doing is waiting for some ass becuase he couldn't press ready, that's the wasted part.
And yes, the soluton is not to play live games (at nromal phase you don't have to wait at all, because you don't sit in front of the computer for days), and I rarely play live games exactly for that reason. But when I try it again and again from time to time, I always hope playing culture has improved, respect of other players got better, common sense means something. And, sadly, I always have to disappoint none of the above has happaned. Then I start a thread, like this, to hyperventillate :) That's all. It just feels good to shout out ;)