Actually, I believe I subtly misinterpreted STA's analogy; he was indeed viewing the surface of the balloon as three-dimensional, not four-dimensional (and hence, it's able to expand). In that sense, one could view the big bang as the center of the balloon, but notice the following issues still:
i) The universe we're seeing is not the surface of the balloon, but some past (smaller) version of the balloon, because light travels with finite speed;
ii) It's still not super helpful to think of points off the balloon (including the center) as points of spacetime, but it is true that one can use mathematics to discuss fourth-dimensional "places" such as the big bang. Confusingly, though, when we look at distant stars, we *are* looking at things "toward" the past, due to point 1.
This page includes a helpful discussion of the balloon analogy.
http://math.ucr.edu/home/baez/physics/Relativity/GR/centre.html
Sorry for the initial misinterpretation of what your analogy was saying, STA.
@Draug,
" So the two dimensional being has a 4th spacetime dimension. My logic still applies. I just wasn't including.time as a.physical dimension. "
I'm not sure what you're arguing anymore. If you're saying that there could be five dimensions (four spatial plus one time), I already addressed that in my previous post. Short version: yes, there could, but GR has nothing meaningful to say about it, and in particular, there is no way to calculate such things as whether our universe is curved inside the five-dimensional space, whether if you left on a "perpendicular line" into the fifth dimension, you would hit our universe again, or so on.
Those things are not determined by GR.