@Lethologica,
Much improved.
Okay, well I think you and I are defining the situation differently. If I had to guess, I think you're defining this thread as, 'here is a problem that must be addressed.'
Rather, I wast mostly just making a suggestion. I'm friends with a couple of the staff members. If it were an important issue I would have contacted them directly. Mr. Tin Can seems to have done a good job of addressing the issue, at least to my satisfaction.
Do we 'need' to have this feature? I don't think so. I happened to enjoy my game here this afternoon without the feature, and happened to enjoy another game last night also without the feature. Thus it so happens that people are enjoying games here without the proposed feature.
I still think the feature would be helpful, but I'd feel like a pest if I pushed the issue.
Take my friend Bohonk, for example. Bohonk is somewhat of a purist. Is puritanism consistent with spirit of the game? I would argue that it is not, however I can remember times in my life when I have been somewhat of a purist about things, even gaming.
One day I had a moment of clarity. I went to my friend and I asked her if I was being a pill. She disagreed that I was insisting that sometimes it is good to have purists around to prevent standards from slipping. Perhaps she was right. Regardless, this conversation (twenty-five years ago) seems to have allowed me to see both sides of the issue. Even though I dislike perfectionism, it doesn't really seem like an undignified way to be.
And in the case of Bohonk, I'm happy to be friends with him even if he and I disagree about things like this. To me it seems that to have friends, one must be open to compromise. To this I'll add that given the choice of being either popular or being forthright, I'd personally rather be popular.
But let us suppose that Bohonk was trying to arrange a match. Perhaps he might title it "Mr. Purists Perfect Game of Orthodox Perfection." Pretty clear, right? Perhaps he might invite me to that game. Probably I would accept. In such a game I would try to conform to the table rules and to the spirit of the game. Among the best ways to make sure that one is invited back to a party, I have found, is to make sure that one blends in.
When I organize games, they are different. When I ball, I play street ball. Perfection ruins this sort of game. Lopsided games are not only more interesting, when one plays in this style, they are more enjoyable. This is what happened to the field of chess, The Old Masters retired when the game became strictly procedural.
In both cases however, I think that clarity is essential to making sure that people enjoy the matches. You need to remember that I am a veteran of the live game scene. In these games, there is no time to settle arguments about rejoins. Expectations need to be set up front.
I think plenty of the younger players fail to understand that this is what the official rules stipulate, that it needs to be specified ahead of time what needs to happen in the even of player attrition.
In other cases, people will want interlopers to pop into a game at random. One poor fellow in our game earlier found himself verbally abused for popping into the game unbidden. Hadn't he only been trying to help? Again, better communication could have prevented needless conflict.
I'll admit that I find it unhelpful when some players try to present their own preferred style of play as the best style, or worse the only style. Who do they imagine they are fooling with this nonsense?
My interpretation of your initial statement regarding this topic was "we should not implement Al's suggestion at all, since the suggestion cannot be implemented perfectly." What I do not suppose you could have known is that I will admit that I am somewhat sensitive about this, since I work professionally around perfectionists.
Their opinions are irrelevant - the rest of us simply have to wait for them to get tired and go home, so that we can implement the project ourselves using duct tape and spare parts.
As stated, there was no way you could have known this, so it was wrong for me to snap at you.
In summary, I think that it would be nice if we could communicate expectations better up front. Gun boat? Pretty clear expectations. School of War? Pretty clear expectations. Other play variants are less fluidly implemented. An easy area for improvement.
You must also forgive that I didn't realize what a relative newcomer you are to the site, given that you are somewhat of a prominent poster. I had gotten used to the idea of thinking of you as an old hand.
Happy Easter to you and your family.
Yours in the Faith,
Al