@Split: Here is how the exchange has gone from my POV: (This was ~5th Mar)
SD->Me >> Hello! [...] I would like to know if you are all familiar with the decision to take 5000

away from me [...] I'd like to have some kind of an explanation on the decision if possible.
Me->SD >> Looking into it now SD, regards, Kestas
Me->Mods >> Apparently SplitDiplomat had 5000

removed and doesn't know why, just so I can let him know can someone fill me in?
abge->Me >> This is the second time Split has tried to by-pass gunboat rules by sending messages via PM [...] I have since talked to Split and explained again why his point were removed. As far as I can tell, Split is now fine with the decision. I think jmo handled the situation fine, but it sometimes helps to have a second mod get involved [...]
Me->abge >> Thanks abge & jmo, I'll let him know to refer back to abge. Cheers, Kestas
Me->SD >> Hi SD, I hear abge is taking care of that case, that it was due to some PMing in a gunboat game, and that you understand why the mods made the decision now. Regards, Kestas
I didn't get a response to that, and so figured all was well. As far as I knew you wanted an explanation, and had got a satisfactory one. You've written to me since then about unrelated things and seemed civil and friendly as ever.
If that wasn't an okay outcome why you didn't write back to me about it, and why this is only coming out now? Was this a different issue?
I'm not paying more attention because this is a forum thread, the mod team had to tell me about it because I can easily miss forum threads. This being a forum thread only makes it more difficult to resolve because egos get involved and there are commentators.
If you do want to talk this case over please e-mail me at
[email protected] or PM me with any extra details.
If you just want to express your feelings now you can do so, but many mods volunteer their time to judge complicated situations as fairly as they can, and I'm sure you understand it's best they spend their time keeping the server fun & fair rather than defending themselves.