"So, if you have many things with no clearly defined intent, but one thing with a clearly defined intent, then you can recognize the difference. And if the outcome of that which has a clearly defined intent imporves the situation from bad or neutral to good, then it was good intent. You need to stop thinking in black and white and see the middle ground."
Why isn't clearly defined intent which leads to a deterioration of the situation "bad intent"? Are you suggesting that deliberate intent will always lead to good results?
Anyway, you essentially concede that for good to exist, you need some reference to bad. For "good" intent to be possible, you need to be able to refer to deliberate intent which has good or bad results. Although I don't see how 'good' intent can be measured according to the results. Good intentions often lead to bad results. How do we know the intent was good or bad in such a case?
"By extension, if the majority of what we felt was the same temperature as ourselves, then suddenyl we felt something that seemed extreme and caused our skin to bubble up and hurt, we could say that was hot without cold ever actually existing"
Err..no. "Cold" in such a situation would simply be something higher than what we are now accustomed to.
For example, I give my students two exams. In one exam the statistical distribution of grades has a midpoint at around 75, with most students falling either 10

higher or lower than that score. In exam two, the midpoint is 85, with most students falling 10

higher or lower. Just because in the second case, the midpoint is higher, meaning that the lowest scores are higher than the first test, doesn't mean they aren't the *low* scores on the test. The lower bound is simply different. So cold in your situation would be something we'd call lukewarm right now. The lower bound is higher.
People in Florida think 60 degrees is a "cold" day. I think 60 degrees is warm. The "extremes/bounds" are different because the climate is hotter in Florida than where I grew up. All of these adjectives are on a continuum.
"Hor and Cold, Good and Evil, all are relative and if you exist at one extreme or the other, then you don't have the concept of that extreme because it is the norm for you, therefore you only have the concept of the other."
You cannot avoid upper and lower bounds ("extremes"). You can change where the midpoint is, but all of these adjectives are on a continuum of lower and higher values.
"A dog has such a sensitive nose that it doesn't have a concept of good or bad smelling, only strong or not strong. to a dog, anything strong is interesting and anything not strong is boring."
I fail to see how this makes your point. You still have opposites in this case.