@obiwan I'm not saying that ALL social programs should be removed, I honestly haven't studied the issue enough to know what can and should be kept VS what needs to be cut out as a wasteful program. I'm just tired of the constant demonization of anyone who says that certain programs are not fulfilling a valid role and should be removed.
In response to your last sentence, I like the idea of being able to opt out of specific programs; social security for instance. If you decided not to contribute, you would have no claim on the services. And if you ended up spending all your money and being broke at age 65, homeless, sick, unemployed, then it's too bad; you opted out.
If you aren't moved to help, then I would argue that you have no right to be called their countryman. Call it callous, cold, or whatever, informed decisions need consequences, for the richest as well as the poorest, however, you shouldn'thave to give any excess you have over to others, or inevitably, many of those others will never grow, and you will forever be paying for someone who by all rights should be able to support themselves.