"Maybe next US president will start actually talking to Ahmadinejad, and why not, Bin Laden. They may actually tell him how they feel and what they want"
Denzel73, are you insane? Read up on your history. This war has been going on since the crusades. After the US became its own country, Muslim pirates attacked US ships (starting in 1784) to enslave the crew, steal the ship and its cargo. In 1786, Thomas Jefferson met with one of their diplomats, and this is how Jefferson reported the response he received to Congress:
"It was written in their Koran, that all nations which had not acknowledged the Prophet were sinners, whom it was the right and duty of the faithful to plunder and enslave; and that every mussulman who was slain in this warfare was sure to go to paradise."
For years American sailors were slaves in Muslim lands, and we had done nothing to them. There was no provocation other than we were non-Muslim.
They didn't stop raiding American ships until we fought two wars with them in 1801 and 1815. If you've ever heard a Marine unit singing their hymn, thats what "from the halls of Montezuma to ---the shores of Tripoli---" comes from. We invaded Tripoli, a major source of the Muslim pirates.
We don't need to talk to the extremists to find out what they want. They declared war on us over 200 years ago. There isn't much to discuss.