Don't act like I'm on your side, taos. I despise your opinion (note: I don't despise you! I love people, I just despise your opinion!), I have not even mentioned the word Islamophobia (or Islamofobia as you write it... Is it a proper alternate spelling or not? Just out of curiosity.). In fact, I can't really disagree more with you. *I think it IS racism, as I explained*.
I wanted to say pretty much what orathaic said in his post now, but, well, he already said it.
Basically, if you think Muslims are evil, that's okay, I suppose, in a way, but they're not evil compared to the rest of the world. Other than what orathaic already said, I'd like to point out that many Muslims simply see the "lesser jihad" as convincing people that Allah (or God. Unlike Christians have done quite a few times, a lot of Muslims don't fight about his name. Basically they say he's the one God, and they name him Allah.) exists, is merciful etc. etc. etc. And of course, if someone wants to be converted to the Islam, they are happy to help.
As for the war involving Islam: there are a bunch of Islamic radicals, yes. However, a lot of them are just shameless nationalists, just like an awful lot of Americans. The average Christian is far more hateful. There's also a huge bunch of Christian radicals.
Whatever your believe/faith/religion is, all that really matters is that you are so stupid to use violence. And the last time I checked America has the biggest military force and isn't afraid to use it, and that country isn't exactly known as an Islamic stronghold. All those people are stupid enough to use violence, to kill to make their home a better place, at the cost of the world. So overall I'd say you can't blame a country (America), religion (Christianity, Islam, Jews (I don't know the English word for their religion, so that's why I'm being inconsistent there)), economic system (capitalism, communism), or race (black, white, whatever). Nor can you blame liberals, conservatives etc.
At least not all of any of those groups. You can blame nationalists, radicals, psychopaths and so on. Most of them don't live in the Middle-East. Many of them are fighting for the mere survival of their families and such. Soldiers of countries such as pretty much every Western country are not defending their homes/families, they're attacking others' homes/families. Therefore they are nationalists, radicals and so on, or stupid, or deceived, or looking for revenge. None of those are particularly good. So if you are looking for some general term for people to blame, I wouldn't look at race, religion, country etc etc etc etc, but at professions: a lot of military people fit the bill.
All IMO of course.