"If you enter into a business deal and don't careful research what you are getting into, it's your own fucking fault."
A lot of people did carefully research what they were getting into. And you know what? All the research said one thing - BUY! All the TV talking heads were saying it. So were the newspapers. The real estate industry, of course, was on board. The punditocracy said that prices were going to go up forever, and if you didn't buy now, you'd never be able to afford a house. Where I lived, everyone had a friend during the Oughts who told everyone they knew that their house had doubled in value and were using the additional equity to buy new cars and take expensive vacations. And everyone had another friend who was suddenly making six figures with no education as an agent and/or broker. How many times did you hear someone say that "Real Estate never loses value!" - a baldfaced lie (which most in California who remember the great recession of the early '90s likely remember), but how many products of the government school system do you think really have the skills and self-confidence to personally research and debunk it? The only people who knew, understood, and were willing to say that there was a massive real estate bubble were denounced as kooks, nutjobs, and party poopers. Who would want to listen to them?
It's like picking up a prostitute after your doctor, priest, and sainted grandmother all tell you it's the best thing for you, the seductress tells you she's a virgin, and the only discouraging voice is the wino who sleeps on the bus bench. I'm a pretty smart guy, and as a longtime lewrockwell.com reader I knew the bubble was going to burst sooner or later in a big way. But I was still tempted by the slick real estate salesmen ("sure, you can afford a house worth ten times your annual income!") and the cute bank tellers constantly telling me I was pre-approved for a loan that could get me out of the shitty 400 square foot unheated/un air-conditioned roach-infested apartment I was stuck in for 12 years.
It sounds an awful lot like you're in favor of a world where getting ahead is a function of one's ability to bend the truth, manipulate others, and generally be unscrupulous. And those who aren't paranoid or smart enough to divine all the ways they're about to get screwed by those 43 pages of 8-point legalese wind up in the gutter. Is that really the world you want to live in?