Oh, I've wrestled with my brother and friends before. It's a lot of fun, extremely tiring, and very satisfying, and yes, no homosexual thoughts enter the mind. My comment was tongue in cheek. I still have to say, that as a spectator sport, the ground fighting is much less entertaining than say, boxing or kickboxing.
I've got a decent amount of martial arts experience, I'm a second dan Black Belt in Tae Kwon Do and I've recently taken up kickboxing. Maybe I'm biased because I've always been better at striking than wrestling, but striking is just so much faster and exciting than ground fighting, at least to watch. It's harder to practice striking with friends and family, but I also encourage you "to learn it and try it out for yourself."