"Are you kidding me Tolstoy? "
No.
"But early tribes, there was an alpha, someone in charge. A ruler so to speak. Its present in apes, dogs, all sorts of wild animals, and it was present in the human as well. "
I agree that we, like all primates, tend towards a hierarchical social structure. But this is not a government; it relies on voluntarism. In a hunter-gatherer band, it's easy for people to walk off and join another band (or form their own) if they're not happy with the leadership of the one they're in. Humans are weak, individually. Alpha males always need beta males to help in the hunt, protect the territory, kill the grizzly bear or cave lion that tries to eat Alpha male, etc. No alpha male is going to survive on his own without betas, and betas aren't going to stick around if it's not worth their while. Our natural state may rely on submission to an authority, but that submission is 1) voluntary, and 2) only going to happen if the submitter feels he/she is getting more out of it than he/she otherwise would've gotten on their own. The crucial difference is that governments *demand* submission that they wouldn't otherwise get, using the threat of extreme violence.