It's not strange to me. I've found out I'm attracted to women with big noses. No idea why. Not that I'm not attracted to breasts and bottoms too :)

I believe Freud once said that the only abnormal sexual desire is not having any.

Is not the face the most attractive part of a woman to most men? I've lost count of the number of times I've heard a man dismiss a woman as a potential match with a phrase along the lines of 'nice tits, shame about the face'. Every other less than desirable body part can be laughed off. A fat girl is ' something to grab on to' for example. The face, on the other hand, has to be agreeable to you.

Wait, *that's* your question?

Damn, from the giant build up, I thought it was going to be something like: Is it weird that my amputee girlfriend likes me to pleasure her with her prostheses.

Yes, I think the face is very important. If you think about it, that's what you see most of the time.

Sylence: "(which is stupid, everybody starts off knowing nothing)"

Hah, speak for yourself.

My penis has a standard deviation of 6 inches, giving a rather low confidence index.

And yes orathaic, I change my stats whenever I draw a new country. You can make sure that the next time I'm Austria, the Obriani will have 0.01% wins.

Brothels, perhaps? It's hard to boast if everyone's actually watching you. So I guess it's pretty honest.

Maybe I didn't express just HOW much of a turn on a face is for me.. like yes everyone likes a pretty face but for me it goes beyond

Do you think you are hardwired to see facial symmetry and skin complection (sp?) as indicators of immune system and developmental genes; implying a good potential spawner?

Also how much does makeup affect your arousal levels? (and no, i'm afraid even here i must don the airs, mine happen to be some knid of smug intellectualistic curiosity today :) mostly tongue placed carefull withun cheek...

Thucy, on a serious note, the only thing you have to ask yourself is this: Does this impact me or my partner negatively? A fetish that only heightens sexual experience is not a problem. I can't really see how having a strong attraction to faces impacts anyone negatively. Is it strange? I don't see how that matters.

Thucy my boy you just don't understand the ways of the world. Typical ivory tower liberal that doesn't know anything about the real world. Why when I want sex I just pull up to the brothel, smoke a bowl and wave all of my money at the hard-working ardently anti-government hotties in there and work my from-the-bootstraps magic, and then I bail out POOOOOF like a stale fart in the wind so I don't have to pay for the underground abortions (because as we all know every time something is banned it simply goes underground and becomes more dangerous). I know you can't replicate my awesomeness with your crystal meth habit and your parents' inheritance money but you can at least try. Now I will mute this thread because all of the armchair academics with their lack of desire to be rich and fabulous make me sick. POOOOOOOF

(>40 replies, no TC, someone had to.)

Idk Vaft I'm not positive I agree, it sort of affects my every day life like you look at a person's face to have a normal conversation, but during normal conversations youre not supposed to fantasize about their face

^"during normal conversations youre not supposed to fantasize about their face"

Don't make it to hard on yourself sport

*too

Ugh. Lol apparently the flaw this forum has for sex discussions is trivialization. I wouldn't have come here if I thought it was normal. Lol. I think sometimes we see each other as caricatures - heads up yall I'm pretty normal and boring. I probably see things the same way as you.

Honestly Thucy, it isn't that people are trivializing it. It seems more like you're building it up into something bigger than it needs to be in your mind. You really don't sound particularly abnormal.

Ok seriously if it becomes a huge problem when talking to a girl with a fantastic face, you mat take the unorthodox solution of looking at her breasts :p

Ok to take my tongue out of my cheek for a moment, i'm not sure i really appreciate the fetish, not being particularily expierenced in the area. As such i don't think i can be helpful.

I agree with orath. I think it's normal to like a girl's face. It shows the most expression and, again, it's the part you see the most.

Now, in terms of a fetish. I don't think there's really a clear definition. Do you like face-fucking? That's a fetish, I would say. A little dangerous, too.

Sorry, I mean I agree with TWA. That isn't to say, in general, I disagree with orath, though.

Face fetish? Doesn't really sound like a fetish. Fetishes are supposed to be unusual. If you said you had a thing for elbows or grandmothers then maybe I would understand. Saying you have a fetish for the face is like saying you have a fetish for hot chicks.

Eeh?
Where am I? Is it considered now a perversity to find a face attractive?

@Eightfold way: A pedantic correction - That part was actually a citation. I forgot to mark it.

I like sex, usually with guys about 20 years older than me. They'll tie me down, put in a ball gag and blindfold me, then slap my nuts, flog me, or zap me with a static electricity probe (they call it a "violet wand"). Or there's good old making out and fucking.

There. Does that do it?

Nice, as long as you have doms you can trust. "Consent is sexy" is a quote I heard in the BDSM community that I love.

I always just thought a fetish was a fixation on a singular object or body part. Idk.

@Thucy

I think a better way to describe it would be a personal fixation relative to the average person's fixation.

For instance, if you liked faces as much as I liked feet, mine would be more of a fetish as I suspect the average person likes faces more than feet. You see what I'm saying.

So, I think we're having a hard time understanding how much more you actually like faces than an average guy.

Thucy faces are hot. There isn't a much more expressive/responsive part of the body to queue you in on how much mama likes what you are doing. Lots of guys get off on that.

Yeah, trust is important. I don't go there with somebody I don't already have a mutually caring relationship with. This doesn't have to be a romantic setup, but it does have to be safe.