"To the dudes getting ready to ask chicks out...Just like snakes and spiders, girls are afraid of you as you are of them, so don’t get so worked up about it. Just ask them out, be nice, charming, polite, and talk loud enough to be actually heard. Hold her hand – really, she isn’t going to bite you, and if she does, all the better….but there is no point living life in fear. Once you break the ice, it’ll be easy. Good luck guys!! (heh heh…..)"
+1 all of this, disregard subtlety acquire romance