See sometimes a nice chicken breast or fish filet just sounds better. Since I do the cooking I get to choose :-D.

maybe i am immature, for all you know i could be in highschool like someone said.
if i had the ability or desire to interact with people appropriately
do you think i would spend all this time on some unknown web forum?

maybe you think i am worse than others because i feel little when people around me are unhappy. but what about people who arent around me? a lot of people think its fine. oh its a tragedy when my friend stubs her toe but those half a million iraqi children that died so that we could weaken the iraqi government was totally worth it. or people who think the darwin awards are so great, so funny. i guess if you think about how much suffering really happens in the world you maybe are a little less disturbed by the feelings of others. or maybe not who knows. but i am not the most evil person in the world.

Why would you spend time on some unknown web forum? This web forum seems adequately decent.

Don't worry blankflag, your old pal YJ still likes you.

I'm not into blowjobs either, at least not when there's unpretentious wine involved.

but i was really hoping for affirmation from the men pretending to be women rather than the ones who openly admit to being men

I am not typically a bitter person. But is it really surprising that I might feel and sound a bit bitter with regard to my wife leaving me? Long term I recognize that it is probably for the best, we can both go and make a better life now, but short term it hurts.

And it is rather frustrating to find out she had unvoiced problems when I've been trying so hard to give her a good life. Obviously some of it is me being blind to things. I'll own my part. I just wish she had been more open with me.

Onwards!

@Alderian you don't sound that bitter, but thoroughly disappointed. It's really toosoon for bitter isnt it? I didnt mean you in my remark really, sorry if it sounded like that. Truth be told, I was kind of shocked to read your post on your wife leaving you. I think I'd hide in a corner and not come out for several months if that ever (god forbids) happens to me.

Still though, I tend to frown when people say a sentence with "women never..." or "men always..." or another combination of both. That such things are said in general is one thing, but to say that of one's own wife... that gives some pause.

@ blankmind: You've never had a girlfriend, have you?

On the real, this is something I have thought for a long time. There was never a more appropriate time to say it than now on webdip so:

I actually really love blowjobs.. no surprise there.

But what I love more than anything - and knowledge of this I would impart on every woman in the world if I had the ability - is getting a blowjob without asking for one at all.

Guys, if you get blowjobs with any regularity at all, take note. You will see I am more than sure that a large majority of them are ones you initiated.

And that is just too bad. So I have to agree with what I think blankflag is saying (though i admit I can't be bothered to read more than 15% of his words) - 3/14 is somewhat of a downer because the bj is sort of expected.

The best blowjob is the one you didn't ask for and don't expect. Because the best thing *about* oral sex is the one-way nature of it. Both ways, it's very much a favor. When on the receiving end one wants to feel that the favor is given willingly not reluctantly.

I try to send this message by going down enthusiastically and without asking (I guess I also happen to love giving head as well as getting it) but it often doesn't come off.

When you get right down to it the world would be a much better place if more people, men and women, enjoyed giving head more than they do and did it without being asked to.

That is my Theory of Oral Sex, have a good morning I bid you adieu

@jamie what? of course ive had girlfriends. plastic dolls maybe, but who needs a real girl when a doll will be up for anything? people have told me that some girls will volunteer bjs and want to give them. since i have never had a sentient girlfriend i cant attest to that, but either way i think i will only prefer one once my hermet lifestyle adds an extra 200lbs of fat and i get diabetes. at that point sex would just be too much physical activity.

@Thucy Not a bad theory actually. Really a lot of girls are more willing to give on a regular basis if they get to receive as well.

Hey that's kind of a funny coincidence. It was also the twentieth anniversary of my first..... well let's just say related experience :-)

A WOMAN MUST KNOW HER PLACE

A Woman without he man, is nothing


-or-


A woman, without her, man is nothing.

HOLIDAYS FOR MEN:

DAYS ENDING WITH: "DAY"

A woman without he man is She-Ra.

@Thucy, I agree 100% with your post above. I would happily give pleasure and would hope to happily receive it as well other times.

I love eating at the Y.

For quite a long time I didn't really mind about blowjobs. Yeah they were nice enough I guess, but beyond feeling relatively pleasant, didn't really get me off.

But the girl I am dating at the moment... Wow. Her blowjobs are just amazing. And she knows it. I never ask for one, and as a result our sex doesn't always include them, but often enough, she initiates it and I praise her to the rooftop and back, during and after.

I love going down on her just as much, I have to say. Pretty much the sexiest thing ever if you ask me.

Dining. Take your time.

Damn right take your time. I'm sure my jaw didn't used to be this muscular.

For me its the muscles on the back of my neck that get ripped lmao.

I swear to god if the world were a tiny bit more relaxed id just wear a bright shirt that says "I EAT PUSSY" lmao

Real men do not perform sexual acts to gratify women. Women must gratify men.

By the way, as a gay guy, I celebrate both Valentines day and Steak and a blowjob day. It's pretty awesome.

Performing said act gratifies me at least as much as it does her, Al. She tastes lovely.

hahah people have al swearengen not on mute?

how?

I believe they eat quite a lot of pussy in Korea. It has to be properly prepared, however. The last thing you want is to spend the day with a hair stuch between your teeth.