@ulytau: LOL.... I guess :D
@Mujus: TY, yes, that's the kind of situation I'm referring to. I'll get back to that a little later.
@jcbryan: When you talk about the farm, which I found very interesting, do you mean that you yourself used to live that way or people in general? And yes, as for your last post, the discussion can proceed despite @Draugnar's objection (who's right in saying that the curve drops at some point, although the curve probably drops more dramatically in the USA than in the EU, and it doesn't change the fact that for most people, as jcbryan points out, the income curve is shifted down the road with respect to the expenditure curve).
@Gen. Lee & @orathaic, see @goldfinger's (3rd) and @jcbryan's (2nd) posts. I'm not a "I want it all I want it now" kind of person, neither am I interested in fuel gurgling cars, however, when you have a family your car will automatically need to be a lot larger than if you're only you and your wife. Kids simply take up space, and imagine going on a holidays with your entire family or just with your wife. A good, slightly bigger than average, strong car for a family in which both parents work, IMHO, is not a luxury but almost a necessity.
@Jamie, I believe the solution you're looking for has not survived the test of time :-)
@Octavious, agreed, interesting, that's another individual level solution like jcbryan pointed out, I'm interested both in individual level and society level solutions to this problem.
I think my work is done here for now...