TMG, thanks for the reply, that is helpful! I'm glad you do not view Draugnar as a cheat or a metagamer, but please confirm you believe he "plays the wrong way" in that he views a draw as a valid outcome of a game, as opposed to your view that a draw is a loss.
You once specifically told me I play the game wrong, as I recall, and something about the game is not called "Allies", or something to that effect. Would you please expand on that since it is a valid topic to this thread? Also, is Draugnar's approach (and my approach) of seeing a draw as MUCH better than a survival or defeat part of the reason you are considering leaving this site, and if so, how big of a part (i.e. minor reason or major reason)?
Thanks for discussing this, I don't really understand some people's view on this topic and am trying to learn. Babak once called me a metagamer for following through with a two-way draw I agreed to with a player when I could have won and this sort of concept really boggles my mind, but suppose I'm not a die-hard gamer that lives by some sort of strict code that Babak appears to for making such a comment, but then again I don't know since I don't really get it.