@Draug: i don't think you meant to imply Brittish people are ants, but ignoring that comment. (ants have a different social system and it works for them, i think it is stupid of you to consider one 'better' than the other; they are different, like comparing apples and oranges, you may prefer one, but both are fruit - you may prefer being free to do as you please but they are both social systems)
If we had to sit down today and setup a society i'm not sure if i'd like any americans (or those Irish people who share this very American view) at my table; but realistically we don't have to setup a new society today.
Still I do agree that hardship, pain, and suffering have their own inherent value. If things are easy and you are comfortable then you have less to motivate you.
If you live in a capitalist economy and you see your neighbours coming home with a great ox it is human nature to covet what you don't have. (though against christian morales) The system should allow an individual the opportunity to earn enough to buy these nice things.
However, in practice, many fall into poverty, either excessive debt, family raising costs/medical bills... not counting those who are stupid enough to become addicted to drugs (alcohol and tabacoo included) - those people become disillusioned with the system - the so-called American dream - and believe what they have evidence of rather than what you think is true - This results in a sub-optimal system - and Communism should never have this problem though it faces many varied other issues which you, Darugnar, are no doubt capable of listing.