I think, maybe mistakenly, that I can make the sort of comments about the way people recklessly have children then demand, repeat demand they have some right to stroll into my country and have us fulfil their expectations.
I bang on about the fire breathing MemSahib, Her Indoors.. Sired by the devil himself.. many years ago we posts child in birth and I nearly lost her, and of course.. No way she could try again.. Yes indeed, thanks God
So what does she do...gives to charities that sponsor children in the poorest parts of the world. It's too much for me to get involved with apart from "signing the cheques" and drinking a bit too much whisky.
Her indoors has her gallery of photos and letters, she knits them silly presents, and I indulge her in this hobby.
So when I see some desperate dad and mum with a litter of kids..Demanding resettlement, I understand, and emphasise a bit, but part of me can't help wanting to ask them..Take responsibility..admit you acted selfishly breeding like rabbits and try asking not demanding