I would disagree with you on both fronts:
"According to all of you, thinking optimistically while maintaining a realistic view on what I can get is naive."
I would 100% disagree, for most of history life has been getting better and for all of history people think life is getting worse.
A majority of Americans think life was better in the 80s then it is today:
The conservatives site the lower real GDP, the socialist youth site the lack of a USSR, the libertarians complain about the ever expanding surveillance state, the environmentalists complain about rising temperatures.
The only one of those 4 people who have any merit are the environmentalists, but I would differ from most environmentalists on how to solve environmental issues and would also differ on how sever the problem is. But that is another topic for another day.
However, if you look at technology, life expectancy, access to consumer goods etc. life is better, I would like to see a legitimate argument about why life is worse today then in the 80s or why life is getting worse today.
"So what's the negative that I apparently don't get about socialism or corporatism? "
To name a few:
1. Ethics: The government doesn't know whats best for me, so why should I trust them for my best interest. The advantage of the free market is that you can decide for yourself what you think you need and want and get it for yourself.
2. Less efficient: The advantage of the profit motive is that unnessacary costs can be cut.
3. Innovation: Capitalist countries always have more innovation, for less costs, then countries that don't. The smart phone market is currently the most competitive market, its also the one that is innovating the mos. Competition breeds innovation.
4. State capitalism vs Liberal Capitalism: Early last year, the economist wrote a special report on state capitalism. It examined countries like China that are rising economic powers who haven't adopted the liberal capitalism model that the USA has embraced. The central argument is that state capitalism is good at playing catch up, China, being less technologically advanced and per capita poorer then the USA means that they are playing catch up, they can then do what components of capitalism worked in America, and using subsidies and regulations, they can't prevent what didn't work. Per capita China will never be richer then the states. China's GDP growth is falling, due to their one child policy they have bigger problems with a retiring workforce and declining population and lastly there is no innvation. China is simply copying America so it can catch up, but when it does catch up, what then? the USA has been innovating every step of the way, while China has not.
5. The issue of money. People on the left complain about the defence budget, now let me show you a reality in terms of % of the US federal budget:
Defence: 20%
Welfare: 54%
The USA is considered to be one of the most capitalist countries in the world that doesn't care about its poor, but 22% of Americans GDP is welfare (welfare being medicare, medicaid, social security, government issues unemployment insurance etc).
At the moment the cost of welfare is growing at something like 4 times the rate of inflation. If welfare started growing at the rate of inflation, America wouldn't need to raise taxes or cut spending and the budget would be balanced by 2024 (based on the CBOs projections of economic growth)
6. Ethics II: As stressed pointed out, why pay people to sit around and do nothing all day?
7. Employment opportunities: There is a direct correlation between welfare benefits and the % of the work force employed. If you give out nice welfare benefits, then the incentive to find work goes down, and so does the # of people working. Less workers means less consumer goods means more expensive conumer goods.
"What about the person born into such riches that they do jackshit - surely this is a greater travesty stressed?"
Rags to riches and back to rags in 3 generations. In both cases the wealthy doing jack shit because they're rich and the poor doing jack shit because they're on welfare, the benefits don't last long, the difference is the wealthy are wasting their parents money while the poor are wasting everyone elses money.
"Stressed... I don't think your lifestyle is seriously impacted by what kind of government you live in (obviously dictatorship and republic, sure, but not really welfare and total free market as much). Maybe I don't understand what you're going for..."
sure it does, higher taxes means less money for you to spend, needless regulation means less things you are allowed to do, less innovation means less cool toys for you to play with and the ballooning welfare state means that these problems will grow at an ever expanding rate.
Just a note: I am not saying that life will get worse under the welfare state, what I am saying is that life will get better faster under the invisible hand of the free market.