I'll start off.
First of all, if you have heard me on the site before, than you probably know my slant- I am an american Jew 100% in blood and belief going back may generations from German, Austrian, and Pole-Russian ancestry.
So yes, I am a huge Zionist, and support Israel (and obviously the US.)
Still, I do feel some compassion for the Palestinians; after all, it used to be the Jews without a home. I think that there are good and bad Palestinians, like all races/nationalities.
Nevertheless, ther ARE plenty of other Arabic/Islamic states, and only one Jewish state, so I do NOT sympathize with them so far as to say that they should be given part of Israel as land for themselves.
Honestly, I really would just like to see them go to other nations (Lebanon, Egypt, etc) or find a way to peacefully assimilate into the Israeli state (but they should NOT be made second-class citizens or have to give up their religion.)
WHO I BLAME:
First, of course, I condemn Hamas. I can see no justification for what they are doing (firing rockets into civilian Israeli areas, killing Israeli families and thus leading the Israelies to retaliate and thus kill Hamas and innocent Palestinians with THEIR weaponry), and if you can give me any kind of defense for them, I'd like to hear it.
In addition, I really think a great deal of Europe, particularly England, France, and Germany, really share a good deal of the blame, if indirectly. Europe as a whole really has condemned this operation by Israel, and yet they will not provide peace-keeping troops to act as a barrier, essentially cooling the heads of both Israeli and Hamas leaders. Germany and France are at the forefront of this, and, as they have panned the US's operations in the region as well (I agree Iraq was a terrible, Bush-laden mistake, but Afganistan is a legitimate war for the US), I do not think much of either of those nations.
England... I respect her, and I really wish that she, the US, and Israel would stop quiblling over petty differences and get along as the Allies they should be. But if England had not muffed handling this way back with the Balfour Declaration....
THE US
I've said many times the US has been fighting the wrong front. We should be there to help Israel; our force there coupled with Israel's would end this in an effective, if inglorious, way, and Obama's cool head can help to assuage the Israelis anger, and perhaps some civilians might yet be spared.
WHAT SHOULD BE DONE
The Palestinians and Israelies are deadlocked- neither will leave the region, both have claims there. The Israelis won the land in battle, and have majority and UN recognition of it being their land, so I do not believe they should leave. Consequently, while I don't think the Palestinians should be forced to leave, and I do think and wish they and the Israelis can just live toegether in peace in Israel as a Jewish State, I realize that is a daydraem, and if one part has to be forced out....... again, all those other states of Islam they have to choose from...... not the best option, but if it came to it, and it was one group or the other, I don't think that the Israelis should (or will be ) the ones leaving.
And yet you have to wonder who is supplying the terror groups Hamas and Hezbollah. Hezbollah, with which Israel fought a similar war with in 2006, began as a regiment in the Iranian military, and is still aided greatly by Iran.
Iran threates Israel's very existance, and is a symbol of and leader in the cruelty and hatred of the terrorism and radicalist movements that have plagued too many Middle East states, and have given good, honest Muslims a bad name.
WHERE THIS HEADED
It will happen eventually- Iran, Syria, Lebanon, N. Korea vs. Israel, the US, England, and S. Korea. Will this incident lead to the shot that begins this World War? It appears a long shot, but Franz Ferdinand was a little spark that inadvertantly started a big war, so always the possiblity.
Suffice it to be said that as long as Israel stays as it is, Palestinans will suffer; as long as they suffer, Hamas will find a way to corrupt the youth and wage war; as long as Israel is fighting in Gaza, Iran can point it's finger and bring the rest of the ME to hate Israel.
Maybe not this time, but sooner or later, one of these incidents WILL set off soemthing, perhaps something Iran says to Israel or vice versa- and then the long awaited war, sadly will come.
Can Israelis and Palestinains co-exist? As much as I'd like to say yes, there is just too much bigotry and history of bloodshed, so for this point in time- no. If Germany and France and the rest of Europe truly want to see a peaceful ending, and can act as peace-keepers and mediators (along with the de-facto mediator in the region, the US, which I love but must admit is slanted towards Israel), then perhaps a grass-roots movement can begin in earnest, and two or three generations from now maybe we'll see a truly unified Israel, with Israelis and Palestinians together arm in arm as countrymen.
But at the moment- eye-for-eye warfare is all that can be foreseen.