@n00b: Well that's just the problem. Lee mistakenly thought that winning battles means winning wars. That's not necessarily true. If the Confederates won at Gettysburg they would not have been able to do much else with an exhausted army, and could not pull off a Sherman's march, even just inside Pennsylvania. The war would not have been significantly changed. The northern factions were still in the majority pro-war, the war-time economy was still full of resources and intact, and Lincoln's character determines that the war would have continued.
Furthermore, the Round tops were not part of Lee's plan. His plan followed Napoleon's Waterloo strategy: Napoleon, being once an artillery officer and thus beleiving strongly in cannon power, bombarded the center and sent in his elite troops right down the middle, but the underestimated enemy drove him back. Similarly, Lee bombarded Cemetary ridge with his inferior cannon power (and most of the shots missed, it being dark) and followed with a doomed Pickett's Charge.
Even in the unlikely event the South won, the government there was relatively ineffectual and the agrarian economy means expansion would be limited. Eventually the two sides would recombine or get stuck in another war, which the North would win.