"Make it a poll and let majority rule, either within each individual game (the best choice, but certainly the hardest) or within the site as a whole. It's a matter of pragmatism, and anytime a solid majority of the site or an individual game wants to pause the game/system I see no reason to not do so. Anyone who's offended by pausing because the majority don't want to pause have no more basis for being offended than someone who gets stuck working a double shift out of the blue and misses orders as a result of that, in fact the latter has more to be upset about and he has to just deal with it."
I disagree with this logic completely. Before joining games, had there been a notice stating that we will be polling members, thats fine. But after the fact, after games have started, you want to impose new rules?
And majority doesn't always rule, not if it violates civil rights. (I'm not saying that this does violate any ones civil rights, just making a point that majority does not always rule, as a rule.)