ive been engaged and this feels better than any relationship ive been in. Im also in early 30s...

but good point, might fall off soon

Give it a couple more months, man, really.

ConservativeMan + brainbomb = RiddlerRoo

huh bo_sox48???

Just ignore me man

Knowing nothing about you besides you've already been engaged once and you're thinking of moving in with someone after 1 month makes me suspect you get too serious too quickly and it ultimately bites you in the ass. Take things slower. What's the rush? You've had 5 dates in 6 days, so living in separate places isn't keeping you apart.

RiddlerRoo - making me +1 bo and not even regretting it.

To clarify, is one of you thinking of moving in with the other or are you two thinking of getting a place together? If you get a place together (I assume it would be a rental) would it be a month to month thing of a year long lease? If one of you moves into the other's place how are you going to counter the power imbalance that dynamic presents?

Moving in together within a month is not necessarily a bad thing, but it generally is, and without knowing more information about your specific situation I cannot think anyone would advise that you do that.

Riddler this is not the right place to ask. This forum is more likely to assume a vagina feels like a wet sock filled with vicks vapo rub after its been microwaved.

lol!! :)

jenga- moving in to a new rental together and both feel the same

He's not asking us about her vagina, brainbomb

is this a "chick" we are talking about, or a woman? just sayin', one of those is move in material, the other is not.

It's never too soon to do a lot of things.

Like replying to your emails. I'd get to that, if I were you.

lol

MODPWNED

Please don't ban Riddler before we resolve his relationship troubles.

There are some important points that must be clarified before giving any sound advice.

1/ Is her shower any good?
2/ Does she have / can tolerate an Xbox in the front room?
3/ Does she have a realistic understanding of the correct place to store clothing (some women have this bizarre insistence that everything must be put in a cupboard so you have to go to the inconvenience of pulling it out again before you can use it)
4/ Does she have an open door policy regarding her family visiting, and are they all awful?

5/ Does she have a webDip account?
6/ Is she currently in any of the same games as you?
7/ Will the mods call this multi or meta?

Why are you numbering like that?
1. It looks weird.
2. It isn't normal.
3/ Hey this is pretty neat.
4> Let's try other ways.
5& yeah this is the best.

6! Just following Oct

On a somewhat related note, I noticed that someone started a forum topic on http://www.datingadvice.com regarding the pro's and con's of SoS scoring

@ Chaqa

1) because I was bored with x)

I'm more intetested why you joined a Diplomacy website to instantly use its forum to ask for advice about your personal life.

1! Funny numbering!
2@ Oo
3# yeah
4$ more
5% Um, I wouldn't want to move in with a chick, henhouses are generally not very big and the chick's mother might get a bit grumpy
6^ pickup sticks
7& OP question, totally situational. After about two weeks of dating, my wife and I who have now been together for 13.5 years, we were pretty much living in each other's houses full time. We moved to a new place after about 3 months I think, but really, we'd been effectively living together in two houses from 2 weeks in. But I've had prior relationships where we never lived together or took a long time to move in together, and I've seen plenty of long term relationships with huge variance in when and indeed whether people move in together. There are way too many individual circumstances at play to set any kind of rule.

@Wpfieps, why should RandyRoo waste money getting considered advice from a professional. Here he gets free advice that ranges from useful to useless, and we all get to have a laugh.
My free advice is, if you do decide to live with a woman, is Don't say sorry for insignificant trivialities, save it for when you'll need it
Eg the woman bowls in and says you've left the door / window open
You do not say sorry, you say" I wanted some fresh air"
So you only say sorry to her maybe three times a year, when you need it
It's like swearing, if every second word is f**k it loses impact
So when you need to, you can use sorry, and it has value

Awww, f*ck.
You are completely right about RR, MM.
I'm sorry.

The important questions are:
Does her father own a hotel and decent fishing boat with motor & is she an only child ?
Send photo of fishing boat...

We should caution Roo.
Whilst keeping a woman and siring offspring with her is rewarding, it is a demanding and expensive hobby for a chap, far cheaper to own an ocean going racing yacht.

I think he should opt for keeping a man instead. Less expensive, quite willing to laze around in his underwear for several weeks, content to be exchanging platitudes over the internet about women.

That's interesting. Apparently his girlfriend is a mod and it didn't go well.

Riddle me this... and riddle me fail. who just got banned for not checking his mail.

@steephie, next time you want girl advice don't go through the hassle of making a new account. from what i hear the mods frown on that. Seriously though RiddlerRoo? how do you come up with this stuff?

Would 'How did you come up with this stuff?' be a good motto for my company? :P

It needs some modification I think..