As this wasn't answered (but i was putting forward dependancy as a good way of determining whether an abortion should be allowed):
"Until a baby develops through all the womb stages long enough for the basic fuel system lungs and breath to function outside, which not all do by the way, it is not life, it is a life in potential. Is this just too profound for you to understand? "
So I guess when my lungs begin to degenerate and I am forced to rely on assistance to breathe then I will cease to be human? Your argument here is just scary..."
Yes, as it happens there are too very different pocesses going on, which have one thing in common. They are both blurry.
One dying, starts with a life which is deteriorating, and ends with a corpse which is dealt with in a manner proscribed by cultural values or the last will of the individual who died.
The second is birth, which begins with two adult humans and ends with a third human being born.
Where life begins or starts is unclear. I do not choose to draw a line.
in the question raised: "when my lungs begin to degenerate" you are dying, alive but dying. Technically when your heart stops beating you are clinically dead. Sometimes they can bring you back, but the decision to do so rests with a doctor. (those people trained to do so)
In the case of abortion it is a thing which isn't a life of it's own to begin with (and therefore not entitled to human rights, especially the right to life, but it's not able to exercise the right to choose yet because it's choice organ hasn't developed yet... ) Until it has developed to the point where i can survive it is dependant on the mother's body.
This is a fact. Until it is no longer dependant on it's mothers body to survive it can not exercise the right to life.
No-where in the universal declaration of human rights is there a guarentee to life whether it depends on the actions of others. On the other hand it does declare the right to a standard of living adequate for their health and well-being. (source:wikipedia)
If a woman does not feel she can guarentee this to her child then she shouldn't continue with the process, and it should be her choice.
At some point in the process it is too late to change your mind. I don't claim to know what that point is, but I do dispute any claims that a fertilised egg is entitled to the right to life.
(oh, and to those who have joined this conversation late: this is the essence of this discussion; disputing what counts as human life: Thucy against limiting the right to life from any group - which lead to the holocause? and Giapeep arguing for more responcibility to be placed into the hands of women - which may lead to better mothers, or less bad mothers.
HOWEVER processes (and life is a process, always changing) are not described by such simple language as has been used here. To reach some kind of understanding of each other we should all first agree at least this much.