I agree DinglleberryJones,
Our names for and understanding of do change with time.We have come so far in our understanding, which I find inspiring. It is only in the last, to be generous, 100 years that we have truly gained full understanding of the bio-mechanic processes in our bodies.
There was a time when it was thought that only men, through their seed, gave life and that women's body's were merely the container for that life to be born. 100 years ago, the percentage of mother's dying due to childbirth and dying due to giving birth to too many children in too short a time for her body to recover (though some did it just fine, I'd say it takes one hell of a body to give birth to 10 children even in 20 years). This is our history, it reminds us the the mother's body is indeed ,finite, as are all of ours, with limited physical abilitites; she must be able to assess her resources (psychological, material and physical) and make the choice of if/when she will give birth it is sad but true that she must make this decision alone (hopefully with support, either way)
I have been very specific in using the facts (in so far a human science knows of this system, which is quite a lot) that marks fetal development as one of the in utero stages. And what differentiates a fetus from a living baby is the baby's major organ systems, lungs being the most important, to keep it alive between feedings. A healthy 40 week old has fully formed lungs and is in this way ready to use them.
While I would have to consider the consequence to my child's life should it be born premature and whose systems cannot yet sustain it's life, I would never deny any parents right to choose between life support (which would likey leave the child disabled for life) or to allow the inevitable death should life support not be chosen just as I would never decide for a woman to give birth or to have an abortion, and just as I would never decide for a man that he should be a father.
Please explain to me how we can equate life support with life? They are not the same thing by any means. One enables life so far as an individual has access to the mechanical aide; without these aids for breathing, or when the lungs can no longer function even with them, those who cannot breath on their own will surely die.
How could you possibly know that the question " frequently ends up being is it ‘convenient’, not is it ‘safe’." In a world where the primacy of male strength is still dominant and woman's obvious vulnerabilities in her child bearing years are not regarded as servival issues , should she choose to become pregnant (the "pro-lifer" will deny a woman her choice, and then leave her to her own devices -- hence the challenge on my first post), reinforces the perception of woman being the "weaker" sex. How can a man know what women experience as the conditions of safety, given that we can hit a corner to find a man pushing us to the ground so he can force himself and invade our bodies and when society won't even equate the work done by a female the same value in terms of dollars and common sense to that of a male?
I never said that "pro-lifers" can't be contradictory in their view, that there are some who believe in "pro-life" and "pro-war," makes me disbelieve their pro-life position, but that's my reaction.
I said I wondered about the "pro-life" position that considers life as sacred, then ALL life must be treated as such and why on earth would we not start with protecting those who already alive instead of choosing to focus on the potential of life, which may or may not survive through birth for other reasons as well as the choice to abort. To me that's like apologizing for something you didn't do, so that you dont' have to apologize for something that you did do.
Pointing out Jacob's disrespect, beyond his general tone (admittedly my tone has not always been as respectful as I would have liked, but I have apologized and changed my tone to one that is more respectful) he wrote in an early post: "Women do not have some kind of special sixth sense that let's them have more insight into the abortion issue."
I find this disrespectful as it attacks the woman's unique role of childbearing, through dismissive language (which reflects an ingorant attitude), and it diminishes the autonomy of a woman, her reason, her female experiences of the word she inhabits and it's history, and the fact that she is ultimately responsible for her own life AND for the life(s) she gives birth to. While both men and women can make the choice to give birth and then walk away, men never have to live through the pain of birth -- a tearing physical separation -- before walking away.
What I have stated is that the woman's experience can only fully understood by women. I cannot understand the experience of racism on a black man's ability to choose for himself, as I am not a black man. I am not saying we cannot understand through empathy and compassion, but empathetic understanding is not the same as knowledge from personal and a whole culture of experience. I am saying that no one can say they have a good enough understanding of other's choices to decide for others
I really do realize they that "pro-lifers" are trying to protect life. I just wonder why they are attempting to do so for lives that have yet to come into existence, by effecting a woman's right to choose for herself and the unborn ( As much on her own as with the man whose actions helped to create the pregnancy) while there are so many living lives that need real protection now. Is it they don't think women can make this decision? I think maybe it is, which is disrespectful at the least.
I do accept the fact that people differ from me in many many ways, as much as we are the same in many ways. In one way we are all the same, and that is how we come to be born: through a woman's body. I would rather a woman choose to abort than be forced to bring a baby into this world that she does not want. And let's keep in mind, the reason that there are so many single mothers in the world is because many men choose not to take on the responsibility of fatherhood and we recognize that no one can force them to.
To me, I realize that "pro-choie" results in children who are chosen.