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Maniac (189 D(B))
18 Nov 13 UTC
I think GameStation own my immortal soul
How do I get it back? And will I need it for anything?
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Yellowjacket (835 D(B))
17 Nov 13 UTC
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YJ has been single for 3 hours now
Fuck that slut.

Comments?
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hootie (100 D)
18 Nov 13 UTC
Muting
Two questions: What is muting, and how do you turn it on/off?
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Jamiet99uk (873 D)
12 Nov 13 UTC
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It's a while since we've had a raging abortion debate
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/slacktivist/2012/02/18/the-biblical-view-thats-younger-than-the-happy-meal/

Off you go...
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Jamiet99uk (873 D)
16 Nov 13 UTC
Kestas and the big announcement
Various members of the mod team said that Kestas would be making some kind of big announcement yesterday, regarding forum rules etc.

Did I miss it?
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krellin (80 DX)
09 Nov 13 UTC
45 Days...
'til Chistmas...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9T4WB2zfmps&feature=youtube_gdata_player
http://www.xmasclock.com/
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krellin (80 DX)
18 Nov 13 UTC
Cellular Death
....tonight's cellular death was sponsored by a double serving of mesquite barbecue kettle potato chips. For that crunchy crunch flavor that dances across your tongue.

I pity the foo' that's scared of a little chip. Ha!
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ILN (100 D)
09 Nov 13 UTC
l337 Variant Game
A game variant where everyone must communicate using only l337 h4xz0R talk and many, many .gifs and .jpegs of memes. 5 minute phase game, on ancient med, only 7ru3 h@xz0Rz will cope with 5 min phase. Preferably played on ancient med, put your name below if you want to play.
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philcore (317 D(S))
14 Nov 13 UTC
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jmo is ...
Awesome! Fuck the haters! He is the hardest working mod/admin here and had a thankless job trying to enforce a line that people constantly tried to cross (myself included). He didn't make the line, he just did his best to enforce it. Good job Jmo, know that you'll be missed by many of the less vocal crowd!
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Chaqa (3971 D(B))
17 Nov 13 UTC
7 Games, 7 Players Gunboat Tournament
Who's in for a 7-game, 7-player tournament?

7 simultaneous games, all played at once. We'll go with 36 hour phases.
8 replies
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jmo1121109 (3812 D)
12 Nov 13 UTC
Numbers
Daily number thread, just because.
27 replies
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MarchKing (113 D)
17 Nov 13 UTC
USER Name & Password
I've lost my P-Word....How can I recover it??
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principians (881 D)
17 Nov 13 UTC
A doubt
If I support myself against myself...
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shield (3929 D)
17 Nov 13 UTC
Convoy Cut Support
If I convoy a unit to a province and support such that it dislodges the fleet in that territory, I get it. That's straight forward. However at the same time, the piece that would be dislodged by a successful convoy is supporting another fleet to attack the unit convoying my unit and if there was no convoy my "convoying" fleet would be dislodged. Does the convoy succeed?
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krellin (80 DX)
18 Oct 13 UTC
Krellin's Konsulting - Mind & Body
Kome One, Kome All...I am opening up this weekend to dispense my sage advice for your personal moral and other dilemmas. As my past patients know I able able to offer expert advice for your every concern. Please feel free to spill your soul, and I will offer the wisdom that extends beyond my years...
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DC35 (0 DX)
01 Nov 13 UTC
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Boobs
Tits
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Lackbeard (75 D)
17 Nov 13 UTC
Support holds
Can you support hold an area that is supporting move for another place? Or does it cancel out?
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krellin (80 DX)
17 Nov 13 UTC
Netflix <sigh>
I can't tell you how many nights I spend 1 1/2 hours looking for what to watch on Netflix instead of just watching something. it almost worse than having 150 cable channels to flip through...

So current favorites: "It's Always sunny in Philadelphia", "Wilfred" and "Burn Notice"
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selene1998 (172 D)
17 Nov 13 UTC
Why does know one want to join my game?
If you were on tonight I probably pm'ed you to join my game. But no you all are just either 'too' busy, ya im talkin you smeck and iln or just are plain rude (abgemaught). Am i not good enough for you? How bout you April of LordRomulus i thought you two were one of the good ones but just left me when the going got rough.

Just thought yall should think bout that.
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SantaClausowitz (360 D)
17 Nov 13 UTC
Should I get one of the new consoles?
Should I put down 500 or 400 dollars for a new consol? Will they be worth it?
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Yellowjacket (835 D(B))
15 Nov 13 UTC
YJ has had a girlfriend for 14 hours now.
And she is hotter than yours.

Comments?
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Sylence (313 D)
13 Nov 13 UTC
Unexpected encounter with a forum superstar
Krellin the cartoon.
I was myself very amused and quite heart-warmed at seeing and realizing who the Sergeant really is.
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TBagJohn (243 D(B))
16 Nov 13 UTC
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Reduced Times for Retreats and Builds?
What do players think of reducing the amount of time for Retreats & Builds? Could make it half of the Orders phase, or even have a pull-down option for it when setting up a game.
7 replies
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krellin (80 DX)
16 Nov 13 UTC
Hunting - Where can I...
...legally hunt an argyle? I'd like to make a sweater...
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krellin (80 DX)
16 Nov 13 UTC
Right Brain / Left Brain
72% Right / 28% Left I am...what are you?

30 Second Brain Test: http://en.sommer-sommer.com/braintest/
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2ndWhiteLine (2611 D(B))
15 Nov 13 UTC
Who runs the internet?
Being that this was a bit of a hot topic here last week, Freakonomics podcast had a timely and appropriate discussion this week on the social forces behind internet regulation and behavior.

http://freakonomics.com/2013/11/14/who-runs-the-internet-a-new-freakonomics-radio-podcast/
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ePICFAeYL (221 D)
16 Nov 13 UTC
Grandmother's funeral
I have my grandmother's funeral today. She died after 5 months of battling against Colon, Liver and lung cancer.
So let me ask: How do you guys on WebDip cope with death?
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redhouse1938 (429 D)
15 Nov 13 UTC
A New Member in the Family of Western Nations?
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/16/world/asia/china-to-loosen-its-one-child-policy.html?hp&_r=0

Discuss.
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hootie (100 D)
16 Nov 13 UTC
Time Out
I must leave a game for 48 hours. Is there some way to notify non-availability to other players?
3 replies
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Jamiet99uk (873 D)
10 Nov 13 UTC
Ted Nugent for President?
Ted Nugent has suggested that he is considering running for US President. Would you vote for him?
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krellin (80 DX)
14 Nov 13 UTC
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From there you say, "But if we eliminate guns....if we could just save one life..."
me:"Sure...sure...what you meant to say was if we could eliminate provocative dress, and just save one women from the trauma of rape..."
you "But nobody needs a gun..."
me 'Nobody needs a miniskirt..."
Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
It's not the same argument.

The majority of guns are not used in an illegal manner.
The majority of women who go out dressed sexily tonight will not be raped.

However:

Every gun death involves a gun.
Every rape does not involve sexy clothing.

Indeed, I don't ever
Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
Ack, cut the last sentence. Stupid lack of an edit button....
Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
Also: Don't put words in my mouth. I would never say something so asinine as ".....If we could just save one life....."
Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
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And what the fuck is a proactive dress?
krellin (80 DX)
14 Nov 13 UTC
Every violent death does not involve a gun

Every rape of a scantily clad woman involves a scantily clad woman.

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YES or NO -- You believe that sometimes the dress of a woman *may* contribute to teh actions of a rapist (with whom we place full responsibility for his actions...and yet also admit that he may be motivated by factors in his environment)?
krellin (80 DX)
14 Nov 13 UTC
YES or NO: No gun in and of itself ever motivated someone to kill another human being, but instead it is largely because of outside factors that he/she is influenced to kill someone?
Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
It's not a simple as YES or NO.

I believe that if a rapist sees two women he could potentially rape, he is perhaps more likely to target the one who is dressed more sexily. However, I think that if neither woman is sexily dressed, he will still rape someone. So the sexy dress does not actually increase the *incidence* of rape.
krellin (80 DX)
14 Nov 13 UTC
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"So the sexy dress does not actually increase the *incidence* of rape. "

You have no proof of this. You have no proof to say that a rapist has never decided to commit rape "on the spot" due to a sexily clad woman....we are not confining our argument solely to the man who sets out in a dark mask and stalks the street for a victim. This could also apply to the drunken asshole at a frat party who goes after the "apparently loose and easy chick" gets her drunk and takes advantage of her because he just has to have a piece of that ass...but for whom the bugly chick across the way in here practical clothes and the real fuck me eyes can't get anyone's attention...

Please do not deny this doesn't occur every weekend on college campuses..
krellin (80 DX)
14 Nov 13 UTC
You have also failed to point out where a gun, in and of itself, was the soul motivator for a person to kill someone.
Celticfox (100 D(B))
14 Nov 13 UTC
It's not the dress but the rapist taking advantage of the situation women wear those clothes.
Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
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Rape is about power, Krellin. Power and opportunity. In your frat party anecdote, surely the main factor is that the girl is *drunk* and therefore less able to defend herself, rather than what she is wearing?
Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
You might also want to take a look at this legal research, which finds that provocative dress does not even necessarily make a woman more likely to be targeted:

http://scholarship.law.duke.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1109&context=djglp
krellin (80 DX)
14 Nov 13 UTC
"Rape is about power, Krellin. "

And murder with a gun has nothing to do with power. It's just someone mindlessly being controlled by a gun with no outside influences over their behavior...

And very glad to see that you so fully and completely agree that the dress of a woman in absolutely *no* way, shape or form should be a consideration when trying to determine the actions of a rapist. You have walked this rape path quite well.

Now, can you also agree that no single fire arm can ever be held responsible for persuading an individual to kill another? And further, can you agree that it is just as possible that, in the absence of a firearm, violent death occurs via: Knife, baseball bat, pots and pans, fists, motor vehicle (yes, people intentionally run people over), poison, dragging behind a vehicle with a rope, home made bombs, arson (with subdued victims inside target building)....
krellin (80 DX)
14 Nov 13 UTC
Can't read a 28 page article right now...did read the conclusion...and I will suggest the that author never worked in an office with young, attractive women and horny guys, for whom sexual harassment (comments about, to one another, or at said women) were simply the acting out of horny young guys that weren't raised properly by their mothers.

I'm not saying some sexual harassment isn't about power...but to suggest all sexual harassment is about power is to de-humanize the very basic instinct of male and female animals to be attracted and act out towards one another.

The notion of one sex of a species putting on vibrant visual displays to provoke action by the opposite sex, and compete with others of the same sex for a mate is prevelant in accross the animal kingdom...but you will now suggest that such behavior does not exist in the humans whom you believe evolved right along with the rest of the animal kingdmom?

Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
@ Krellin: "Now, can you also agree that no single fire arm can ever be held responsible for persuading an individual to kill another? And further, can you agree that it is just as possible that, in the absence of a firearm, violent death occurs via: Knife, baseball bat, pots and pans, fists, motor vehicle (yes, people intentionally run people over), poison, dragging behind a vehicle with a rope, home made bombs, arson (with subdued victims inside target building)...."

Of course it is possible for both violence, and violent death to occur without guns. Yes. I am happy to agree that this is the case.

I would not argue that guns cause violence. I do not believe I have ever done so. If I did, I retract it now. However, I would argue that in a violent situation, the presence of a gun would, I think, make a fatality more likely. It is *possible* to kill someone with a saucepan, yes, but it is much *easier* to kill them with a gun. If you are attacked by someone with a gun I think your chances of survival are lower than if they come at you with a cooking pot, or their fists. Can you agree?
Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
@ Krellin: "Can't read a 28 page article right now...did read the conclusion...and I will suggest the that author never worked in an office with young, attractive women and horny guys..."

When you do make time to read the article properly, you will find that the author didn't just pluck the conclusion out of thin air. It isn't a baseless opinion, it is a conclusion based on a thorough study of real sexual harassment cases.

krellin (80 DX)
14 Nov 13 UTC
I agree guns make violent death of another much more efficient.

Can you agree that possessing a gun makes it much easier to protect myself than, say, waving a sauce pan at an intruder?

Further..."...a violent situation..." Well this is an interesting little tidbit, isn't it? So a situation causes the violence, and the gun perhaps expedites the process of violence. I think that is an accurate description of you assertion.

So I wonder then…do you agree that rape is most often a situational occurrence? In other words, it is most often someone that is known that commits a rape, as opposed to the creepy stalker. As such, do you believe in the limitation or removal of available circumstances under which rape frequently occurs? Such as over-consumption of alcohol? I think I could make the argument that alcohol is the firearm of rape…wanna dance that dance and see if I can make you dip?
krellin (80 DX)
14 Nov 13 UTC
"When you do make time to read the article properly, you will find that the author didn't just pluck the conclusion out of thin air. It isn't a baseless opinion, it is a conclusion based on a thorough study of real sexual harassment cases."

And my conclusion is based upon real life observation of "sexual harassment", which occurs all the time and goes unreported, most often because it is normal human behavior.
Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
@ Krellin: "Do you agree that rape is most often a situational occurrence? In other words, it is most often someone that is known that commits a rape, as opposed to the creepy stalker."

I'm not sure I agree with that claim. I know three women who have been raped by complete strangers, two who were the victim of an attempted rape by a stranger but managed to escape or fight him off, and only one who was raped by someone she knew. Do you have any reliable evidence to support your claim?
krellin (80 DX)
14 Nov 13 UTC
I'll see what I can find....to be continued...
Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
Ok.
mendax (321 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
Most rape is acquaintance rape - krellin is right there.
Jamiet99uk (873 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
Evidence please Mendax?
bo_sox48 (5202 DMod(G))
14 Nov 13 UTC
Mendax, who are you and what have you done with Mendax?
Gunfighter06 (224 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
krellin, thanks for backing my point.

Blaming inanimate objects for crime is asinine.
krellin (80 DX)
14 Nov 13 UTC
http://www.911rape.org/campus-rape/what-students-need-to-know/stranger-rape-vs-acquaintance-rape

http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-offenders

http://www.sarsonline.org/resources-stats/reports-laws-statics

The majority of rape is committed by someone known to the victim
Putin33 (111 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
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"Blaming inanimate objects for crime is asinine."

Should we not blame anti-personnel land-mines for the 15,000 injuries or deaths which occur worldwide via landmines? Should not focus attention on Napalm for the effects of Agent Orange? After all, it's just an inanimate object right, the type of weapon is a non-issue.
Putin33 (111 D)
14 Nov 13 UTC
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Krellin - you're comparing a dress to a gun. In what way can a dress rape somebody?

Jamiet99uk (873 D)
15 Nov 13 UTC
@ Krellin: "The majority of rape is committed by someone known to the victim"

Ok, given the evidence in the links you've presented, it looks like about two thirds of rape victims know their attacker, so yes, I concede that you are correct on that. It surprises me that's the case, but I guess my own experience just happens to differ. I'd have guessed it was more 50/50 but my assumption was wrong, clearly.

Having cleared that up (and thanks for taking the time to do so) I'll go back to your original post and attempt to address the questions to me which it contained:

@ Krellin: "So a situation causes the violence"

I'm not sure what you mean by that, actually. A situation causes the violence? All I did was use the term "violent situation". All kinds of things might cause violence to occur, and when the violence is occurring, that's a violent situation. Once you're IN that violent situation, if someone has a gun, rather than a saucepan, a fatality is more likely. Do you not agree with that? Where are you going with this "a situation causes the violence" thing? I don't quite follow your logic.

"In other words, it is most often someone that is known that commits a rape, as opposed to the creepy stalker. As such, do you believe in the limitation or removal of available circumstances under which rape frequently occurs? Such as over-consumption of alcohol?"

Again I'm not sure what you're getting at here. Surely if a woman is drunk, she's less likely to be able to fend off a rapist, whether she was acquainted with him beforehand, or not. So what does the alcohol have to do with whether or not they know each other?

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