@ Krellin: Sorry it's taken me a whole day to respond to you, I've been busy. Now, let me do my best as an imperfect human with a reasonable but not flawless mind, to respond.
"As a result of the rape - which rape frequently occurs in the above described situation - nobody calls for the elimination of parties..."
How would you eliminate parties, exactly? To call for the elimination of informal social gatherings would be to propose something more-or-less impossible. It would not be feasibly possible to "eliminate parties".
"The rapist is held solely responsible for his actions, even though any thinking person will understand that mitigating factors - alcohol, for example..."
Alcohol is not a mitigating factor. If it was, the courts would give lesser sentences to rapists who were drunk, compared to rapists who were sober. That would, of course, be outrageous. If I were to get drunk and rape someone, and I would not have done it sober, it would be my fault for allowing myself to get so drunk I could not control myself. Alcohol is not a mitigating factor in rape cases and you should not describe it as such.
"Can you agree to that? Because if you can agree to that -- that nobody calls for the elimination of any anything which facilitates the act of rape -- then likewise guns are the same"
Guns are not the same, for the reasons I have already explained.
"No gun causes anyone to kill anyone."
I have never said this. I have never said that guns *cause* people to kill people. I have never argued that guns are the cause of violence.
(Unless, say, a gun owner is attacked by someone trying to steal his gun, but that's not a typical case...)
"It is the unstable mind that consumes too much alcohol and finds himself in a fight in which weapons are brought to bear."
That's true. I agree with you. But take away the gun and you go from a situation where you have a drunk with a gun, to a situation where you have a drunk with a saucepan. Which situation is more likely to end in a fatality?
"But in no case can a reasonable person blame the gun."
That's fine. I wasn't.
Note:
I would like to say one thing, Krellin. Your tone in the last day or two, in the more recent exchanges in this discussion, has been much more sensible and polite, and as a result I have much more interest in engaging fully in the debate with you. Thank you for that - I hope it stays this way.