Everything aside, it's some very exciting and complex diplomacy.
When someone inputs a draw vote, that changes a lot.
Not only does it demonstrate a tangible willingness to everyone that you want a draw, it means the player is risking a lot. If they put in the draw vote and walk away for the day it indicates that they wouldn't mind if when they came back everyone had voted for a draw.
Now... that doesn't always MEAN that's what they want. It could just be a tactic.
Also if someone has left a draw vote in place and hasn't withdrawn it in a long time, the other players can surprise him by drawing even after he may have assumed that wasn't going to happen.
There are lots of levels, but just know this: When a draw is becoming a feasible option, lots of things change. I was just recently in a game in which there were two large powers, myself as Italy and Germany. Russia had once been greater than both of us but we had banded together against him. When we were split 33/33/33, Russia had voted for a draw.
Germany was also willing to draw but hadn't voted to yet, but me, being one who believes pretty strongly in winning if you can, convinced Russia and Germany independently to stab each other, and each started fighting. I then stabbed Russia and the war began. Russia was rolled back to about 8 SCs to our 14 or so each.
As Germany approached 18 faster than I, things began to change. The West, especially the Atlantic, became the scene of an arms race where before it was relatively DMZ'd. Russia in the meantime was clearly the wild card. He was fighting me and not Germany, so Germany was then making all the gains. I knew I had been beaten at my own game and would not win if I did not do something soon.
As a result I did a lot of tactical thinking as well as some furious and desperate negotiating with Russia (that turned out to be in vain.) But the tactics paid off, and though I was undermanned, with a little luck, I put Germany in a bit of an uncomfortable situation by slipping behind his lines. When Germany and I broke our silence, the draw was mentioned, probably because we both saw Russia's draw vote still there. And so it happened. If I hadn't applied the pressure at that exact moment, I would have been on the run from Russia and Germany until he won, giving me just a survival.
Instead I got the draw. Perhaps I could have turned the tables and gone on to win, but I knew that Russia was playing strangely because the game was in its twilight, and knew I would need a lot of luck to win, so the draw was best.
Now.... was it unethical not to take the draw initially, hoping I could knock out Russia? Heck no.
gameID=12755It was really fun and all three of us expressed our enjoyment. A game played right I think, despite what Friendly Sword may have seen as unethical.