I see.
Well, I think I would say something like, "as its radius becomes arbitrarily large, a sphere can become arbitrarily close to flat [i.e., zero curvature], but can never get there" (due to the Gauss-Bonnet theorem). It's hard to put this precisely in terms of limits and topological changes -- limits deal with what happens as you get close to, but don't reach some limiting point, whereas a "tear" has to happen at some finite point of a process, and is by nature (as you say) discontinuous. Three statements that would be true:
1) In the limit as the radius of a sphere grows without bound, its local curvature goes to 0.
2) In the limit as the radius of a sphere grows without bound, its topology remains exactly the same.
3) There is no topological sphere that has zero curvature everywhere. (Gauss-Bonnet).
So if you want, the space of spheres is not "complete" in this sense. (This is all very informal). Really, though, I would use the language of differential geometry and just say what precisely happens locally and globally, which are often different but subtly related questions. Being too informal with some of these questions can land one in hot water.