'semck... again, since we have conflicting morals, of course I find them "wrong."'
This is what I still don't understand. Forgive me for being dense.
Let's try to analyze a little. First, there are (at least) two senses of "wrong" here -- factually wrong and morally wrong. For clarity, I will adorn each with its corresponding adverbs. (But I'll also just try to use "false" for factually wrong).
Since you don't believe in absolute morality, I take you think that statements of moral truth, unrelatavized, are false (or meaningless). That is, if I just say, "Murder is wrong," that would be false, whereas if I say, "Within my moral system, murder is wrong," that would be true (presumably).
Now, I assume (but correct me if I'm wrong) that
1) within your moral system, it wrong to be hypocritical. By this I mean that the wrongness of an action is never determined -- all else being equal -- by the quality of "being Yellowjacket."
2) within your moral system, it is not wrong to fight for what is right.
3) Within your belief system, what is right is a matter of personal opinion, and no set of opinions is more valid than any other.
Now, if I tried to say, "YJ, old buddy, you're being a hypocrite when you call abortion opponents wrong to fight for banning abortion," you might say (in fact, you just did say), "No, semck, old buddy, because while it's not wrong to fight for what is right, 'right' in that sentence means right IN MY BELIEF SYSTEM, and anti-abortionism is not wrong in my belief system."
Put differently, you might point out that you do NOT subscribe to
2') within your moral system, it is not wrong to fight for what you believe is right.
(The difference is I added "you believe"). But this highlights the whole problem. The difference between 2 and 2' is just whether the belief in question is the actor's belief, or Yellowjacket's belief. In other words, whether 2' is right or not depends only on whether the person is or is not Yellowjacket, which is just the definition of hypocrisy from point 1. Therefore, in your own moral system, you're a hypocrite.
Now tell me where I strayed. ; )
To put the argument in more physicsy terms, a belief that hypocrisy is wrong implies that there is a symmetry in morality with respect to identity, but combining beliefs in subjective morality with a belief that fighting for a morality other than yours is wrong breaks the symmetry, and is thus hypocritical.