"yes, the friend trap is something a lot of young men go through at high school and university, liking a girl, getting close to her and hoping for a relationship to grow out of the friendship, a classic mistake that men make, you end up being the brother at best or maybe even typecast as the gay confidant!"

Oh. My. God. I thought I was the only one. Holy crap.

Yeah I'm a senior in high school and I have about 10 of these "friends," all of whom I find rather attractive. I hate my life lol.


Anyway, to that survey:
What role do you think sex fills in a relationship?
I think it fills and important role as a way to consumate affection for each other, as a sort of... officializer if you will, a bit like moving in but not as far out of reach.
How do you feel about sex without love?
I think it happens... and that it's enjoyable lol. I also think that it is dangerous territory and that you can end up making someone feel like total crap if you aren't nice about it. This I know from experience.
Favorite sexual experience?
Two sisters at once... I won't say any more. I don't think I'll ever top that.
How do you feel about the role sex plays in society? I'm in Houston, Texas, and maybe it's just because I'm a teenager but honestly I think a lot of people are rather open about sex. Granted there are those who seem totally asexual but it's not as bad as those overseas might think, I imagine, though I could be wrong, as I have lived here all my life.

Anyway, yeah, I have an odd, odd, situation myself and any of you older types feel free to tell me what to do here...

As I said most of my best friends are girls... and they see me as nothing but a friend. However, it is probably these girls that I feel the most opposite sex affection for out of anyone I know, because I care about them etc. etc. But of course they only see me as a friends whereas I see them as that and much more. So that's a classic problem I guess... but it's juxtaposed with this:

Outside of school, whenever I make acquaintances and others things with girls I end up having a short fling with them that almost always turns sexual... and though I kept a lid on this secret about me at school for a long time it has got out this year and I have a reputation as a man-whore, pimp, what have you. And yet, with no one at school. So.... now I don't know what to do because I seem incapable of a long-term relationship; all I have ever done is hook-up and break the girl's heart. And my female friends all know this about me...

Maybe just wait a few months to graduate or what?