"@Chrispminis, I see your point. I believe there are valid distinctions to be made between myself and my environment, but, ultimately, yes, I am not separate from my environment... my matter and energy is made of the very same stuff that makes my chair, the tree outside, or you. This can lead one to conclude that one is as "mechanical" as the universe... or it could lead one to believe that the universe is as "alive" as me and you (though not, of course, necessarily self-aware or currently as organized as you and I). This touches back on the idea of free will... which I don't have an answer for. ...I appear to have free will... and I might as well assume that I do. As far as objective significance... it seems that one could equally decide that all things are objectively significant... but, it seems, it is beyond our abilities to discern either potential truth. I am subjectively significant... and isn't that enough? (which, I guess, isn't far from the existentialist view, actually... I just think they get there through mental gymnastics that I don't bother with normally... but then, that is the nature of philosophers)"
The validity of distinction is purely the domain of human ascribed significance. You can't equally say nothing is objectively significant and everything is objectively significant. I thought we had agreed that the external universe offers no such significance. Besides, if everything is objectively significant than what is the significance of significance? If everything is significant, then isn't nothing significant?
Of course subjective significance is enough... enough for us to be satisfied and carry on living. Otherwise we wouldn't still be around, right? It's all the meaning we've got anyways. Anybody who wasn't satisfied by mere subjective significance would either delude themselves into believing there is objective significance or they would likely be indifferent to death which is not a trait likely to be passed on to successive generations. We all come from a long line of successful reproductions, each one of our ancestors were able to put aside such philosophical quandaries and get their freak on. Is it any surprise then that we find subjective meaning to be "enough"?
To your side note on free will, you have free will in the sense that it is mostly the bundle of matter that comprises you that is involved with the decision making, so that it can be said that you made the choice. However, the choice is still the marco result of mechanistic micro-interactions. There's no part of you that is somehow above this interaction and can make the choice from some metalevel vantage point, but it is still you that makes the choice.