P“I am a spy, a sleeper, a spook, a man of two faces. Perhaps not surprisingly, I am also a man of two minds. I am not some misunderstood mutant from a comic book or a horror movie, although some have treated me as such. I am simply able to see any issue from both sides. Sometimes I flatter myself that this is a talent, and although it is admittedly one of a minor nature, it is perhaps also the sole talent I possess. At other times, when I reflect on how I cannot help but observe the world in such a fashion, I wonder if what I have should even be called talent. After all, a talent is something you use, not something that uses you. The talent you cannot not use, the talent that possesses you — that is a hazard."
Here's something you should take with you. Seeing a issue from both sides is not a talent, it is not a gift, its quite simple in fact. Less simple is weighing both sides, and deciding where you stand on the issue. This country wrongly teaches our children that being free of bias and being above the arguments essential to govern and shape society is a good thing, and it isn't. It is cowardly, it is weak, and it is completely besides the point. Great you can "see both sides" so can almost everybody else, just some people use their brains and their courage to decide where they stand. Then there are the others that are content to do nothing.