1 NMR in mid-game is no justification for anything. If it's the start of the game, than yes, but not mid-game. Than you would never be able to finish a live-game. And the main reason for this is, that there are players who uses NMR's to force action from other players. It's a way of saying, if you don't help me, I will throw the game. That is why NMR never counts as a reason to draw when it is mid-game.
And pausing a live game in my opinion is just like cancelling it. You can never be sure that ppl will have time, at the same time, and that might as well ruin the game for those who actually made time for the live game they joined.
As for the Germany and Italy could have - well I doubt that. France hated Germany as well, and as I all ready told you Italy was doomed. Actually Italy was doomed because you eased up the Russians for us.
And as for wjessop join and the ending off the game - yes, that was a bit annoying. You are absolutely right, wjessop should not have joined the game just to try spite me and Turkey. I am betting that he joined cause you PM'ed him asking if he was in the game?
And yes. But you are taking that public message out of context. Had Wjessop not joined, me and Turkey (Without you or any England) would have drawed. And yes we were going to leave you out of it. I really can't see how you think that is not okay. You joined a live game. There was no NMR or CD's until mid-game (when you, Germany and Turkey had finished off Russia), there where only one NMR on Italy's part, which wouldn't have changed anything, and, as I have already told you, Germany CD'ed when he was loosing.
If you have to stop every live game because one player CD's when he is loosing or when one player NMR one move in mid-game than you have to stop every live game. That can simply not be the purpose with live-games.
What is "dishonorable and pure shit" is you. You are a sour looser who is only out to spite ppl who defeated you fair and square. And you showed that side of you already in-game when you started writing like this:
"the man CDs and you still refuse to draw? stubborn lot this bunch"
"i ate a coconut yesterday. weirdest fruit ever. or is it even a fruit?"
"but no 4 way? really stubborn"
"drupe droop over people who are duped"
And oh, the coup de grâce:
"he is worried about me betraying him i guess, smart for normal circumstances but it does make our borders tense."
Your lines about you're so-called ally
"4 way fine? cause italy is about to go"
Your lines of your end-view when Italy where about to loose - how on earth is it more fair to make a 4-way cause you have to leave, than making a 6-way because the others had to?
The problem is, and where, your lack of writing in a friendly tone. You disrespected players in-game right when you needed to be on good terms with others. As you are disrespecting me now.
And finaly. Just stop with your argument about "allies". You had only Germany in that game and even that was all to late for you to have any chance of winning. And the moves you made with him was - surprise surprise - against France. The only one you keep grasping a straw at. He hated you as well as Germany. So it would not have matered if Germany had stayed, cause it wouldn't have helped. Your alliance was low on SC's.
And Italy. Italy never made any moves that was coordinated with you.
The one who ruined that game was you. You keept thinking that the only right thing to do when you had to leave was to draw. That didn't matter when Germany had to leave. You didn't include him in your so called "honorable" way of ending the game.
As for the game end. Yes, it should not have ended that way, I regret that wjessop joined, and that that ruined the draw that we were about to make. Luckily Turkey saw that before he drawed, and so we kept on playing. And as you can see from those moves wjessop made he was not able, as you would not have been either, to hold a draw line.
When Germany was about to go your so called "alliance" of you Italy and Germany had only 16 SC. You were no where near a line that could hold a draw. That justified for us to play on as long as we wanted to. And so we did.
To summarize. It is okay to keep playing a live game even if someone CD's mid-game. It is okay to keep playing if someone makes NMR's mid-game. It is okay to play on even if someone thinks he can make a draw line if you think otherwise.
You lost. Please deal with it in a mature and respectful manner.