Well SYnapse, let me correct you on the things you are wrong about...though it might be easier to just mention what in your post wasn't wrong.
Your business with Oli is in fact our business. You may not be aware but we share a very close relationship with their moderator team and staff. This relationship is inherent and necessary due to the fact that the sites share the same code. Myself, Kestas, and Oli collaborate quite a bit about code features and I'm working with A_Tin_Can here to merge their changes into webdip site code. We have cross team moderators who work on coordination with the other teams on cases and site features, etc.
This relationship has also been demonstrated by the vDiplomacy moderators becoming involved when one of their former admins violated our site rules, by implementing a ban from their moderator team for that member. This cross site punishment again demonstrates the the relationship between the two sites.
We replied no to see how your forum developed. Had it become an opening and welcoming site then we would have reevaluated our position. Your implication that the slanderous posts wouldn't have happened had we agreed to work with you is invalid since that would mean the sentiment was still there, and that your forum simply would have members angry at you for censoring them, not something we'd want to be involved with.
Add onto all this your presumption to assume the right to advertise an "affiliation" with vDip and we want nothing to do with your forum.
Then we move onto your personality. When you consider your past history with us, and your tendency to take rash and inappropriate actions when frustrated (attacking the site code, fake mod emails,etc), you can hardly blame us for not having any faith in your administration of your forum as it relates to our site. Especially considering that your profile here to this day is insulting Zultar and the mod team
"Quit reason: moderator team are morons
http://diprepublic.iftopic.com/
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Finally, our business with Oli at vDip is frankly none of your business.
-WebDip Admin