@abgemacht,
"No, not in Algebra 1, but by the end of HS they better be able to if they want to be an engineer."
Hardly. I hadn't so much as taken trig by the end of high school and I'm currently in grad school for mathematics. As somebody who routinely tutors, teaches, and grades the exams of college students from the American high school system (students who largely did take some calculus there), and who all too often -- to my great chagrin and unhappiness -- sees their career dreams come to an end in a college math course, I can say with some confidence that the most crucial thing, which happens all too rarely, is that a student receive a genuinely good grounding in algebra in high school. (And yes, *preferably* also trig. My path was not in all ways ideal.).
@Slyguy,
I think you'll look in vain for a single word from me in this thread blaming anything on the laziness of students, or for that matter saying that our schools are doing a good job. I don't largely disagree with what you say, except that I'm more skeptical of technology than you are. There has been outstanding teaching in (some) American schools in the past (and is at the present) without the use of technology, which is a good prima facie case that technology is not a sine qua non of good or creativity-inducing teaching. I have little doubt that talented teachers can and will use it to stimulate and encourage creativity, but I also have no doubt that it's often used as a poorly considered magic bullet by people who don't understand what's wrong and vaguely hope that its mere presence will make things better.