"What's unbecoming is someone demanding that I conform to his beliefs without even acknowledging that other view points exist. "
Man, abge, so sensitive. Where did he "demand" anything? He said he'd like you to read a book. And, without acknowleding other viewpoints? Do you do that every time you post something about science or your atheism? Every single post about evolution, do you say, "Of course, this is only one viewpoint, others may differ, and are equally valid." No, you don't. So, your post is pretty freaking unreasonable, I'd have to say.
I did skim the book you suggest once in a bookstore. It wasn't bad, pretty interesting.