This one time at band camp...

"GUESS WHO GOT LAID LAST NIGHT!"
Your mom did, and I didn't have to guess ;)

Lol. Abge, CM +1.

Also, having sex doesn't make you a man. Sure it's fun, but it's high time we got over our misogynistic culture.

" 'GUESS WHO GOT LAID LAST NIGHT!'
Your mom did, and I didn't have to guess ;) "

This coming from the guy who asks for relationship advice online?

☺ I think, I might just ♥ you.

That is all.

I thought religious parents usually didn't like premarital sex.

And, I'm pretty sure most parents don't like their 14yos having sex.

If I had a son and he was out banging chicks at 14, I'd give him a high five!

O/\o

@ TNT (yes, that's what I'm calling you)

See my OP. This is exactly what I'm talking about. How would you feel if you had a daughter and she was out giving it away at 14? And presuming you feel differently (because almost everyone does) *why the fuck is there a difference*?

@ damian: Aww, I ♥ you too.

@ : )

Because, a boy is like a key and a girl is like a lock. If a key can open up many locks, it's a master key, but if a lock is open by a bunch of keys, it's a shitty lock.

@smiley: I say now that I wouldn't care if my future 14 year-old child was having sex regardless of gender, but that might change when I'm actually a father.

abge +1
That is my new favorite quote

@abge:

I expected to get that response, but not from someone I actually respected. Surely you realize that is not actually saying anything. It entirely begs the question of "why is there a difference?"

...I was being facetious...

I agree. I don't agree at all with the double standard men and women have with sex. Although, tbh, I don't notice it much with the people I'm around, although they do tend to be more liberal and intelligent than main stream America.

The one thing I will say is that women do have the risk of becoming pregnant, which is a very serious risk. It isn't fair, but a women should take added precautions because of this. In a perfect world, the guy would pitch in 50% if she does get in trouble, but we all know this isn't often the case.

That's true, abgemacht, but I'm not sure a significant enough risk, probability wise, to draw substantial differences, given that you use protection. Regardless, the issue can easily be muted by discussing oral sex instead - the same feeling prevails.

And I thought you might be being facetious, but there wasn't anything in your post that indicated so, other than the sheer idiocy of that statement. Sorry I misunderstood you, but it seems like I wasn't the only one. :-)

Well, in the past I've used ": )" to indicate when I'm joking, but as Draug's recent thread clearly indicates, that doesn't work either, so I stopped using it.

You're right. There isn't the double standard because of the risk of pregnancy. There is a double standard because people are sexist. I'm just pointing out that women do take on extra risk when they have sex. That doesn't mean they shouldn't do it; they just need to be more careful.

Meh. I think you're just pushing for more threads calling you an asshole.

Just for the record, I knew abge was being facetious.

@ Abgemacht It's not a sexist double standard. Men are generally more inclined to sleep around than women are. It's biological. Because of that the culture has evolved to fit that mould.

Whether or not they're more inclinded isn't what's at issue.

What's at issue is that, in general, society labels men that sleep around as studs and women who sleep around as sluts/whores. Why is that OK?

Because it is different from the accepted norm, the very proof of this is that there are almost NO male whores.

"Because it is different from the accepted norm, the very proof of this is that there are almost NO male whores. "

Ha ha ha,

But seriously, just because you don't see something doesn't mean it doesn't exist. It isn't as visible a profession as female whoring but believe me it does exist, and is more common then you think, a friend of mine was offered a ... almost legitimate sounding job, doing just about that but in high society manner.

I'd really rather not get into to many details but yeah.

I'll probably give the discussion a chance to branch out a bit more before I chime in on the main topic at hand, because ☺ summarized most of my thoughts so nicely.

I know, I have a friend who works in a casino who always get's approached for "Service" while he's waiting for the bus. I guess it's just the uniform he wears and his smashing looks. But yea, I think that part of the reason is the inclination of the job towards women.

Wasn't this thread supposed to be about ME?

No, it was supposed to be about your mom getting laid last night. Of course, her and I were the only ones who knew about it.

yes, you went to band camp. What of it?

btw, while I completely agree with smiley on the double standard thing, I like to joke around with the whole sexist issue to piss off my gf, so I'm am definitely using abge's quote

+1 abge

I iS A tRoLLeR. LOoLOLolOlLoLoloOlLoolLOoOlLOlololl. yOr'RE wELcOme.

@King Atom
you say you are ready to get trolled. This whole thread is simply trolling you in that it's not about you anymore. Jesus, just get with the program. ;)
Now, back to the important issues of this thread; I'm pretty much of the opinion that people shouldn't have sex at all unless they're prepared for the possible consequences. Whether or not you take precautions, there is no 100% effective contraceptive other than abstinence. This is why I personally wouldn't let my kids (regardless of gender) have sex before they leave the house, or have a steady job.