slypups's original statement of the problem with KB implies that his level of success or tactical situation or some such in the game is part of his gripe. I see no evidence that this is true at all, and suspect that slypup's very understandable frustration at the guy was just bubbling over into the wording. Wanting to cancel or draw for that reason isn't one of the vices that Boyd is demonstrating here, at least in my estimation.
slypups description of what happened is accurate. Hauta is dealing with hurricane stuff and missed a turn. After that, he asked for a pause and everyone voted for it probably more quickly than for any pause I've ever seen proposed, particularly in Modern, where it takes so many people to coordinate.
The problem is what to do next. Hauta was wonderful about it and encouraged us to find a sub or whatever. I favor waiting until he eventually returns. Others favor drawing or cancelling. Yet others favor following through Hauta's own suggestion of finding a sub.
This is all civil, and done with kindness and respect, except for Boyd's part in it. I suspect that most or all others feel as I do, and think this is one of the most interesting games of Diplomacy to come around in a long time. The dynamics have been subtle and complex and the "pair" mechanism causes odd balancing to happen that doesn't normally. I hope that I'll find others who want to discuss the game rather at length if it ends here, and my preference is that we get to see the experiment play out.
I don't particularly think that any of the outcomes are unreasonable. It would have been very unreasonable to not pause, but that was done instantly. After that, I have my preference (to wait) but can live with most anything else too. With the exception of Boyd, I think my statement in this paragraph describes most everyone in the game (except for perhaps the parenthesized preference.) Boyd stands alone in believing people have motives that seem incredibly implausible to me, and that he regards as ignoble. He's communicated this in the rudest terms possible, with petty insult and name-calling.
As much credit as we can hand to slypups (?) for dreaming up this idea, a lot of the credit goes to the unusually high caliber of play from a bunch amazing players. If we don't continue from here, I hope that we put another together and get most or all of the same players. KB, you were also a joy (a frustrating, nail-biting, joy) during actual play. My hope even extends to seeing you in a replacement game, though I do sorta hope that you're like you were when we were playing and not like you're being now. The beast that you're railing at is indeed ugly, but it isn't here.