Jamie - just because you have a narrow idealistic point of view doesn't mean all pro-abortion people do.
An, forgive my (what you no doubt perceive as) twisting of your words, but if you are not anti-abortion, you are by default pro-abortion.
Again...let's remove the emotional idea of killing a baby from the discussion, and talk about:
Are you For or Against beating your wife?
Well, some would say, "I am definitely Anti-Beating My Wife". Someone Else may say, "I'm not for beating my wife - would never do it -- but who am I to say that you should or shouldn't beat your wife".
Tell me - is the man that is willing to let you decide to beat your wife "pro wife beating", because he sure as hell isn't against it. And...if he knows you Do beat your wife, and he stands by and lets it happen....er....uh....
....lets see...I'm certain that Jamie would say, "Donald Trump rally attenders punched a man....Trump was hosting the rally...therefore Donald is 100% responsible for the choices of the individuals at his rally...therefore Donald Trump is guilty of punching a protestor." (I got that right, didn't I? Isn't that the argument being made?)
OK...so if you know your neighbor beats his wife and you say, "Meh...*I* wouldn't do it...but that's his decision..." and you let it happen...are you not at least somewhat responsible for allowing her to be beat....you could have stopped it, you didn't do anything...you in effect are pro-neighbor-beating-his-wife....
Right?
Tell me where I'm wrong with that.
Yes...I get it...a "normal" person would never wish an abortion blah blah blah. Except you are dead wrong that abortion activists to some extent don't actively encourage abortion. DEAD wrong.