I think you keep pushing that Ghug's reaction is only because he is scum is tone deaf and that's what made Ghug to bail out.President Eden wrote: ↑Fri Mar 04, 2022 1:05 pmthis is true. on the point of tone, this is something that bothers me because I feel I go out of my way to be painstakingly clear about what I think. if I were mad at ghug and trying to bully him out of the game, you’d know it. I feel I very plainly stayed calm and collected and did not make it personal. you’d have to go very far out of your way to read anything else into it and come away with a contrary interpretation. and if you do that, that can’t possibly be on me. how the fuck am I supposed to account for people adding in emotion I don’t feel to reach a conclusion I don’t hold, which runs contrary to the things I did say? I feel like I’m held to this impossible standard where at all times I’m expected to know exactly what everyone is really thinking and feeling and be able to predict every last way they’re possibly going to respond and if I ever get anything wrong then it’s not just an error but an indictment of me as a person. it’s really exhausting and nobody here even comes close to living up to that, so why do I have to?Chaqa wrote: ↑Fri Mar 04, 2022 7:08 amI can’t 100% speak for eden, but I can say his tone does not translate to text well. I don’t really remember what happened three months ago, but in various discussions I’ve had with eden where ghug has come up, it’s never been a discussion point, so I wonder if eden is even aware of this issueFluminator wrote: ↑Fri Mar 04, 2022 6:43 am
I will read the case later but I do know ghug was genuinely hurt by whatever happened 3 months ago. (He's mentioned it outside the game to me before)
I do not fully understand what is going on between you two tbh.
It's only your fault? Of course not, but you should try to look from the other side, because you are still acting as you were just calling a scum play when everyone around is telling you that Ghug is really annoyed and feeling bad about that. In the end this is just a game and making other people to feel bad isn't worth to get a win.