Good luck Dipbro Brainbomb. There's a few things that disappoint me about the behaviours of a minority of members, the inability to insult without using crude and offensive expressions. The constant choice of betrayal within games. A lot of games are a test of character, golf is a classic example ( like I'll never do business with a chap who cheats at golf ) In my opinion too many members here are failing the character test. I think i am obliged to keep playing in one of the two games I entered that are yet to finish, the other I've decided to NMR / go CD, but cannot comment any more on that at present.
Quite frankly, when I compare what I experience within a new, unconventional relationship and what I'm experiencing here, it's a "no brainer" as to where I'm finding enjoyment and where I'm not.
I stopped referring to this new relationship I am in when Brainbomb let us know his distress at the breakup in his own relationship, because I didn't want to come across as boasting and not being sensitive to Brainbomb's situation.
I know from past experience that when a chap has a busted heart over a relationship break up, it can be a painful thing to see ( or hear about) others enjoying love.
Anyway, good luck Brainbomb, this is me hinting that I've made a decision.