But not necessarily.
My Brother’s wife quit the household (amusingly to pursue her career) leaving him with 3 wonderful daughters aged at the time 14, 12 & 9 to raise alone. He did a great job coincidentally & they all turned out wonderful women.
Both my sons moved into my home at 14 (lucky I love teenagers) with zero coercion from me. At no time did I shirk my financial or physical responsibility as a father, in fact I left an extremely well paid job in London to accommodate my ex-Wife’s preference of country of residence, specifically to be Dad until they were educated & in work. In my opinions Dad’s are more than chequebooks.
You see stereotypes of parental responsibilities are just that. Yes, women bear young & men don’t (that’ll probably change soon:-) but as far as being a parent, a job that last many years, the first 9 months is only a chapter in the book.
The fact that one is written by the mother shouldn’t exclude the other parent in this saga contributing fully on all aspects, including whether an abortion happens. I got married to have a family, not abortions. If that kind of fundamental fairness is excluded from the debate, no wonder no one ever finds a solution.