If you had 100% control over your sexual orientation, which would you be? [HIDDEN]

[Restitution]

Do you have a source for that (that many gay men don't have anal sex)? I hadn't heard that before.

I'm bi and I have lots of gay friends.

Like, go download grindr and see all the guys looking primarily or exclusively for oral, lol. This is common knowledge.

[Fluminator]

If I'm being honest, oral sounds gross to me too (like swallowing bodily fluids sloshing around in my mouth? eww), but maybe I can't knock it until I try it.

[flash2015]

I am not sure it is that common knowledge. Perhaps we should start a poll in a new thread?

[Fluminator]

I think it's your turn to start a thread flash.

[flash2015]

OK, so the thread is now hidden. Probably was a bit too much...

[Fluminator]

I blame HR tbh.

[damian]

You know you don’t have to swallow Flum

[Carl Tuckerson]

I didn't think he was talking about oral sex...but you know that the popularity of oral sex is a (relatively) recent thing, don't you? They can see this in the rise in throat cancer:

The options available for sex between two men I find fundamentally repulsive

So, one of those options is oral sex... so he's saying that he finds oral sex fundamentally repulsive. Which is... yikes

Clearly he's *not* only talking about anal sex, because a lot of gay men don't do anal sex. He said he finds all of the options repulsive.

Quit looking for things to get offended about.

[Octavious]

For clarity I did have anal sex in mind, but as it happens I also find the idea of oral sex on another man repulsive.

What baffles me is the hostility that there is to this. My sexual orientation is what it is and causes me no problems. It has, to my knowledge, caused no problems to anyone else either. I do not judge others because of their sexual desires or orientation, and indeed have argued strongly that differing orientations should be respected and enjoy the same rights as those enjoyed by the mainstream. And yet supposedly liberally minded people on this site have questioned my mental state and resorted to hostile and abusive language purely because mine are what they are.

To those of you who have done this, I urge you to reconsider your stance and to move away from a position of crude bigotry towards one of tolerance and acceptance.

[Carl Tuckerson]

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What.

[Octavious]

What.

For long distance relationships, perhaps?

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[StevenC.]

I didn't think he was talking about oral sex...but you know that the popularity of oral sex is a (relatively) recent thing, don't you? They can see this in the rise in throat cancer:

The options available for sex between two men I find fundamentally repulsive

So, one of those options is oral sex... so he's saying that he finds oral sex fundamentally repulsive. Which is... yikes

Not as uncommon as you think. I dated someone in high school and they would did not want me to go down on them, or vice versa. She just wasn't into it.

[StevenC.]

If I'm being honest, oral sounds gross to me too (like swallowing bodily fluids sloshing around in my mouth? eww), but maybe I can't knock it until I try it.

Hot.

[StevenC.]

For clarity I did have anal sex in mind, but as it happens I also find the idea of oral sex on another man repulsive.

What baffles me is the hostility that there is to this. My sexual orientation is what it is and causes me no problems. It has, to my knowledge, caused no problems to anyone else either. I do not judge others because of their sexual desires or orientation, and indeed have argued strongly that differing orientations should be respected and enjoy the same rights as those enjoyed by the mainstream. And yet supposedly liberally minded people on this site have questioned my mental state and resorted to hostile and abusive language purely because mine are what they are.

To those of you who have done this, I urge you to reconsider your stance and to move away from a position of crude bigotry towards one of tolerance and acceptance.

Best advice is to ignore the perpetually offended. They won't change.